Monday, 28 April 2025

Can you have a male bridesmaid?

Can you have a male bridesmaid?

In 2025, weddings are more inclusive and reflective of the couple's relationships and friendships.

The traditional roles of bridesmaids and groomsmen are evolving, allowing for a more personalised and meaningful celebration.

If one of your best friends is male, can they still be a bridesmaid? The answer is, of course. You can have anyone you choose be your bridesmaid. There are possibly better terms to use than bridesmaid, such as bridesman, or man of honour. Or why not just ditch the genders for the whole wedding party , and call them wedding attendants, I Do crew, wedding posse, or commitment crew?


Mackenzie and Damon chose their best friends to stand by their side, regardless of gender. Mackenzie's Team Bride included Emily, Lauren, and Zak, while Damon's Team Groom featured Neville, Bailey, and Tannah.

The gals donned fit and flare silky dresses in burnt orange, while the guys looked dapper in all black. The result? A visually stunning and harmonious ensemble that exemplified unity and friendship.






Ceremony location: Brisbane Botanic Gardens, Mount Coot-tha
Coordination: @elopebrisbane
Celebrant: @cheryl_landsberry_marriage_cel
Photographer: @romanasaeheng
Transport: @kandidkombi

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Friday, 18 April 2025

Wedding at Cleveland Tavern

Annarelle and Craig first met at work. They had a similar sense of humour and laughed at the same things. Craig wanted to give Annarelle his phone number, and wrote it down on a piece of paper, carrying it around in his pocket for weeks before he worked up the courage to hand it to her and ask her out.
On their wedding day, the two could not stop looking at each other adoringly. The affection they have for each other is mesmerizing, with one of the guests mentioning to me after the wedding that she was just transfixed during the ceremony.
The couple chose Cleveland Tavern for their ceremony and reception, with the covered courtyard providing a convenient location, and a covered roof which was most welcome when the day dawned with a forecast for rain showers.
Being one of nine, the wedding day provided a great reason for all Craig’s siblings to come together from all over Australia and New Zealand. And with Ananrelle's four children of her own, the day became a celebration of family uniting.
The bridesmaids wore jade green dresses, Annarelle was lovely in a white princess style wedding dress, and Craig was super dapper in a grey suit with a tie.
Their wedding day was sweet and memorable, and will be talked about for years to come.
Thanks to Annarelle and Craig for writing me a beautiful card which read, “ Thank you for your Commitment, Professionalism, and Grace.”
Congratulations, Mr and Mrs Miller.
I hope you live happily ever after.
Celebrant: Cheryl Landsberry Marriage Celebrant
Ceremony Venue: Cleveland Tavern
Photo by Shannon Covolo

Sunday, 13 April 2025

Can the bride wear a black wedding dress?

Can the bride wear a black wedding dress?

In the realm of weddings, traditions have long dictated the attire of the bride, with white being the preferred colour. However, as times evolve, so does the concept of what a wedding should be. Today, couples are increasingly embracing their individuality and making choices to suit their diverse personalities.

For a bride, choosing black is not merely a departure from tradition; it is a declaration of her unique persona and a celebration of her individuality. It is about creating a wedding style that is unique and a little quirky.

Mackenzie selected a sophisticated black wedding dress in shimmery fabrics, with a cinched waist and a full skirt. She literally sparkled down the aisle. Groom, Damon, also opted for an all-black ensemble, with a black suit with a shiny lapel, a black shirt, and a black tie. Their mutual appreciation for musical theatre was reflected in their striking and dramatic appearance.

Mackenzie incorporated a traditional element with a pearl necklace and pearl drop earrings and carried a bouquet created from Baby's Breath flowers. Similarly, Damon's boutonniere was Baby's Breath. The wedding party attire featured seasonal burnt orange hues, while the guys also wore black on black.

The couple celebrated with an intimate, genuine, and relaxed ceremony at the Brisbane Botanic Gardens, Mount Coot-tha, followed by a reception lunch at Tocano's in Brisbane.

Mackenzie and Damon wrote, “Thank you so much for everything you have done. It was an amazing day for us and having you as our celebrant was so seamless and easy. You have been amazing to work with.”

Coordination: Elope Brisbane
Celebrant: Cheryl Landsberry - Marriage Celebrant
Photographer: Romana Saeheng Photography and Graphic Design
Transport: Kandid Kombi


Tuesday, 18 March 2025

Married just hours before their engagement party



Andrew and Gemmanda knew they wanted a short engagement. They decided to marry in an intimate, low-key wedding ceremony just hours before their official engagement party was due to start.

With friends and family arriving from near and far for a 2pm engagement party at Alexandra Hills Hotel, the couple scheduled their wedding ceremony for midday that day – with just immediate family present.
Gemmanda was in hair and makeup by 7am, with her dark hair piled up in curls fastened with pearl pins. She wore a fitted blush gown with a lace overly from Ravish Bridal at Slacks Creek.
With his Scottish heritage, Andrew decided to wear his family tartan, and although warm in the outfit, he looked very dapper.
The couple skipped all the trimmings – music, poems, flowery vows, and bridesmaids, and instead kept their ceremony simple and fuss free. They chose to include Andrew’s daughters in a family sand ceremony, with the girls choosing pink and purple sand to add to the engraved vase.
The couple then captured some portraits with photographer, Andy, before surprising guests at their engagement party – informing them that they were, in fact, attending a wedding reception!
What a fun and fuss-free way to celebrate!
Dress: @Ravish Bridal Official

Thursday, 6 March 2025

March wedding at The Chef's Manor Anstead

Why not have both?

Ami and Johan work and live in Adelaide. But with Ami hailing from Brisbane, and Johan from South Africa, choosing a wedding location was a dilemma. The couple decided to have weddings in both Brisbane and South Africa.

Planning a wedding from interstate was a challenging prospect for Ami, however, she relied on reviews and recommendations when choosing suppliers. The couple chose the beautiful gardens at The Chef’s Manor, Anstead for their ceremony and celebrations. The venue has so many locations for pretty photo backdrops – manicured gardens, a white timber arbour, a stone wishing well, a gazebo, a red phone box, and a British red postal pillar.

Next, the couple found their celebrant, Cheryl Landsberry, via a recommendation. Being based in Adelaide, I was able to complete the Notice of Intended Marriage with the couple over Facetime – such a great option for interstate couples and I’m so very pleased that the Government decided to extend this option after the temporary provisions lapsed after the Covid contingencies.

We also shared ceremony ideas via email, allowing me to write a personal ceremony for the couple which suited their vibe. Their ceremony was created with a little tradition, a little humour. a little sugar, and a lot of sincerity.

Ami walked down the aisle with a stunning white lace dress with sheer panels. Her dark hair was curled, and she wore a veil and drop earrings. She carried a bouquet of white flowers. Lia, looking like a little princess, also wore a white dress. Johan was dapper in a classic black three piece suit with a bow tie. His mini-me, Ollie, wore a matching black suit and carefully carried the wedding rings in his pocket.

As the beaming couple walked back down the aisle hand-in-hand, they were showered with biodegradable confetti, which made for a joyous photo.




Guests enjoyed chilled drinks in the gazebo as the couple captured the moment with photographer, Judy, and videographer, Chris, from Iris Faith Photography.

Venue: @thechefsmanoranstead
Celebrant: @cheryl_landsberry_marriage_cel
Photos: @irisfaithphotoandfilm

#brisbanewedding
#gardenwedding

Sunday, 9 February 2025

Wedding at Indigiscapes Native Garden, Capalaba

 Wedding at Indigiscapes Native Gardens, Capalaba

Siobhan and Kieran planned their wedding as they lead their lives, aiming to tread lightly , respecting and enjoying our natural environment.

They chose the Indigiscapes Gardens, the site of their engagement, for their wedding day.

Kieran and Siobhan first met through mutual friends, and found themselves drawn to each other. As they spent more time together, Kieran appreciated Siobhan’s spontaneity, her resourcefulness, her dependability, and her giving nature. Siobhan valued how thoughtful and kind Kieran was, how true to his values he always remained, and his calm and easy-going nature.

As with everything in their life, the couple decided together that they had found their forever person, and designed an engagement ring to celebrate the occasion. They started making plans for their wedding, with family, warmth, and simplicity their central themes.

On their wedding day, a beautiful summer afternoon, clouds danced across the sun, providing a reprieve from the glare. Guests gathered around the amphitheatre at Indigiscapes, and assisted Kieran with last minute preparations, setting up cool drinks under the shady umbrellas.


Kieran and his groomsmen wore Earthy brown coloured trousers with a crisp white linen shirt. Kieran also wore a matching bow tie, and tied his curly locks back from his face.

Siobhan walked down the path, with her parents on either side, wearing an understated white, whimsical gown, with a low back, which skimmed over her slender figure. She wore her Auburn hair out in a cute bob, which enhanced her sparkling blue eyes. Along with the pearl drop earrings, her beaming smile was the only adornment needed for the day.

Siobhan chose a beautiful City and Colour song, “The Girl” to walk down the aisle to. Her three bridesmaids all wore dresses of Earthy brown hues, all in different styles. And they all carried bouquets of native flowers, clipped from Siobhan’s own garden.


 

The wedding ceremony was authentic, charming, and unassuming, reflecting the couple’s outlook. Their vows to each other were carefully thought out, personal, and just lovely. They chose, “Married Life” from the Movie, “Up” as a whimsical interlude while signing the marriage certificates, and invited their mothers as witnesses for the signing of the certificates.

As the couple walked out to their happily ever after, guests tossed native dried flowers in the air, making for a gorgeous photo. They were congratulated by family and friends, then photographer, Judy, captured some beautiful photos amongst the towering Eucalypts. Afterwards, the couple rejoined their guests for excited chatter and refreshments under the shady trees.



Venue: Indigiscapes Native Gardens at Capalaba

Photographer: Judy from Iris Faith Photography at Wellington Point

Celebrant: Cheryl Landsberry from Birkdale

Dress: Grace Loves Lace at Burleigh

Wednesday, 8 January 2025

Micro wedding at Raby Bay Foreshore Park, Cleveland

Nikki and Dean relocated from the UK to Brisbane, created a life together, adopted their fur baby, Bruce, welcomed their daughter, bought a house, welcomed their son, and started a business. Planning a wedding took a back seat.

When their parents announced plans to visit Brisbane for Christmas, the couple decided this would be the perfect time to be married. They didn’t want anything soppy or mushy, and didn’t have time for intricate planning.
Dean and Nikki contacted the team at Elope Brisbane and chose the Twenty is Plenty package, which includes celebrant, photographer, arbour, 20 chairs, and 20 cupcakes. They chose the bamboo arbour with the macrame hanging for a boho look. And added a round cake for cutting, bouquets, and boutonnieres.
Being a summer wedding, Dean chose to wear chino shorts and a white linen shirt, as did Nikki’s dad. Nikki wore a beautiful trumpet style white lace gown with a train.



I played the ceremony songs through my PA system, with the couple choosing, “Sweet Disposition” by the Temper Trap for the processional, and “Let’s Get Married” from Trolls for the signing.
Their ceremony was short and sweet, and the kids ran around in the park while a few photos were taken.
As I was packing up my gear, I overheard Dean telling guests that everything had just turned out perfectly. Grooms just love that a wedding doesn’t have to mean stress, expense, and drama.



Afterwards, guests joined the couple at their home to celebrate.
Coordination and Styling: Elope Brisbane
Florist: @Capalaba Carnations